My Discovery to life experiences

Bill Gates once said, " If you born in a poor family its not your mistake,  but if you die poor its your mistake".  BUT what if someone is born in a rich family and die in a poor state ?. There is no such difference between these two statements because the conclusion of the both  meets at one point and i.e., ITS TOUGH TO BE RICH.  Once my friend in the classroom discussions told me that the money is like a shadow , how much the man tries to run behind it , he will lose it and if you want money you haven't  need to run after it let the money follows you as like your shadow. No matter how you born, rich or poor what matters is which destination you reach at the end of your journey of life. The mentality of a person plays a very important role in his life. If you choose right mentality right attitude you win , if not you will loose. The money is not going to buy a happiness or peace for you , rather it can only completes your needs and give you short term joy of your fu

Have you ever feel threatened ? Or there is something that threats you ? Well i must say, if your answer is YES then, you are very brave that you accepts your fear and agrees that you feel threaten. Because knowing your abilities and flaws is the sign of self understanding . You know all the good and all the bad about you, all your abilities and disabilities about you that means what you need is just to make realize yourself that you know yourself.  There is nothing such as a fear its just about your superstitions- Yes, you read it right there is nothing such as a fear its just about your superstitions. There is only the lack of courage not the absence of courage. You feel threatened because you never show the courage to know the cause or the reason behind it . You never give a chance to polish your abilities over your courage rather, you just take it as a they are. Whatever the thing would be , whatever your fear about would be , the things most matters is how you get over it .

There are many people in the world who are more than just intelligent and they makes me laugh out. What kind of efforts they made are as follows- 1. Some people who are not well known celebrities they used to write their user name in social accounts as officialbill , officialjohn , officialkiara , officialsaam and many more, I want to ask them did your parents first bring you on the world unofficially ??? 2. MY CONFUSION BETWEEN LAUGH OR NO LAUGH- When someone is in grief around you and you ask him , what happened ? . He will always firstly reply nothing , and then you are just about to move on another thought, that suddenly the same person start telling you his problem and start explaining it with one remark "YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW IT FEELS". LOL. , then why are you wasting your time and energy by telling your story , why don't you leave it ?.  This proves that " THE FIRST STATEMENT BY A PERSON IS ALWAYS WRONG UNTILL HE DIDN'T FINALISE I

Most of the people think that the I CAN'T attitude leads to the negative results . But i don't think it is as bad as people think. This is because my way of thinking is quite different upon these two well known words, I CAN'T. For me , there is always two sides of everything one that you can see and the other that you can't, and i always take care that before reacting  over every situation i am well known about the fact of its one side and the other side. I want to question everyone why you load your fear of failure on these two remarkable words I CAN'T ? , when they are helpful to you too.                They make you feel free from fear when you recite them and give you the only declaration upon your conflict between your fear and your will power. I enjoy the thrill of I CAN'T by my illusion about it. What i simply do to enjoy this thrill of illusion is - I dance without music by assuming this i can't hear and my body was still making movements on dance

I have experienced that there is nothing as wonderful as self-love. I never understood why people think that love means loving only the other person, caring only for the other person, and making every possible effort only for the other person's happiness. Yes, it is good to love, to care, and to do things that make others happy, but my dear, what about you? Who is loving you? Who is caring for you? Who is making every possible effort to make you happy? The answer is - NO ONE. Because those who are doing all these things for you, except your family, are actually doing this only for one reason, and that is for the sake of their own selfishness. People use you, manipulate you, and even make you a fool for their own sake. And when you realize this, they have already gone away from you. The good people are usually made fools, but they are actually not. Today, I am happy because I have started loving myself while loving others too. I take care of myself in the same way I take care of oth