My Discovery to life experiences

Many times in life we go through the unfavourable conditions and we suffer. Although , we own are responsible for the things we go through in our life but many of times we blame the god . Why god always do all the bad  things with me only ? Why it has happened to me not with anyone else  ? Why all the problems are supposed to come to me? and many more questions you ask like this. ALL these questions run in your mind like a spinning wheel when you are in a problem and you never focus on the solution more precisely than you focus on the suffering. The things happened to us in the same way as we want to make them happen. Surely, none of us demands a negative results for the things we want but we got negative results of them because there were second thoughts in our mind about it, there were doubts regarding to it in our mind. At the last we got what was more emphasis on our mind . Not all the things happening in the world are controlled by you somewhere the universe is ...

We have a choice to choose the things in life. We are free to make choices . We ourselves are responsible for our moods and emotions too. Ofcourse , life is like a radio and we have to make some adjustments . But that radio is not a burden on us that not even tortures us to listen it day and night.  Its our own choice what we want to do or pursue . What thoughts you allow to hit your mind or you conceive in your mind , makes your reactions toward them . Don't be at the same place or that same stupid reason , if you can't laugh on the same joke many times. Give yourself a freedom to feel free. It is your great victory if you have a right choice of the feeling you want to flow with.                                                                                       ...

Every impossible thing in the world is firstly done by the imagination. Imagine what you want to see happening , it  will surely happens to you. Your mind controls everything . Even the way , the things happens to you is also controlled by your mind. Your each thought is decides your destiny. So, if you have dream to accomplish any goal , dream it like as you are living it . The discourage cannot lock you in the room of darkness until you have a vision to imagine. The one  who is blind has the vision to see . Be imaginative, visualize the things to make them happen . Imagination is the key to put your thoughts into actions.                                                                                                     ...

I breathe , I live , I walk , I run , I fall , I wake up again , I drink , I eat , I sing , I dance , I fight , I cry , I lose , i win , and many more, I do everything i want to do and i will do it.  I have a vision and I have a dream. Not even a one but an uncountable dreams because my each desire is my dream. What are the obstacles ?, I really  don't know because I never let myself stuck in them . I have reasons to dream but never a reason to excuse from a dream. I believe in the existence of a life i want . I believe in the existence of a dream to be true i want. I believe in my believe that empowers me to achieve more. I know how to work on my skills to achieve my goals. I know what is important for me to focus upon. I also know that you tried your harder and the best to pull me down. But did you really think it was worth , when my dreams are more than the worth . I guess ,you can't stop me from achieving because i am unstoppable as my belief is unstoppable to make t...

What would i know about the happiness , if there was no any pain. What would i call myself other than stronger , if i didn't suffer through pain. What would i win on , if i hadn't compete with my pain. What would i want to heal, if i didn't know what is the pain. My sufferings, my aches, my anger , my hunger, my anxiety , my grief , my pain, my worst all belongs to ME. I accept it , I admit it because I want to heal it. I can't wait for the sympathy of other person to heal me . I can't take the words of discourage in me. Its OK , it will be fine . Problems comes with solutions and solutions pour in problems, i just have to focus on my solutions to take them out. I know many of people wants me to break , but they don't know the things break either for the recreation or for becoming even more better (like sculptor breaks the stone to form a wonderful sculpture). I don't find any use of  grabbing sympathy by telling my grief to others until am not tak...

Having a conversation with yourself is a good habit. It improves your self esteem, as well as you get a chance to know more about yourself. You discover more things about yourself and know yourself more closely. The best thing about you is , you are designed or developed by your own thoughts. Whatever you think , your mind works on it to make up you that. The things you learn , the things you forget , only happens because you want that. When you have all good in your mind only the good will happen but when it is not, the results are not on your side. We stuck many times in a day to many problems but some of us try to get over it by thinking about solutions and some of us don't because we think problems are TOO BIG that we can't handle. This only happens when we set up our mind to a particular point. Like, you want to dance whenever you listen a song and you never had a dance training for it but still you dance .  You feel free to dance because you set your mind in this wa...

One of the most beautiful feelings of the world is feeling of being in love . Your love can be for anything . It can be justified if it is in true means. Love is not something that can be paid you back . It is simply meant for giving your love and care to others without expecting the same in return. LOVE HAS ONLY ONE DEFINITION - that is " LOVING OTHERS WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS".   LOVE CAN BE FOR ANYTHING -  You can express your love in many ways to the things you love the most.  Your love can be for anything . It can be for food, travelling , reading books, singing , dancing, planting , sky diving, swimming , or many more. Your love for anything makes you happier , as you do all the things that you love to do. STOP GIVING THE DEFINITIONS TO LOVE ACCORDING TO YOUR REACTIONS- If you suffer from a heartbreak , don't say love is a pain. Love is not a pain . It is the same thing that was before just a beautiful feeling of giving  but not expecting as it was...

Yes, i am depressed ,frustrated , angry , feeling low and being cut off from the society from sometime.  Ofcourse , sometimes there are thoughts in my mind to disappear from this world and just end up this journey of life to start up new one. But I really don't want to do so , really not.  Just because some things didn't happened like i wanted to or some things go wrong i can't take a decision to quit from my life. If life is a game then, i am the warrior to whom god sent to just win this game. If life is a movie , a story , a theatre or any serial then , i am the only character  in lead of my life. If life is a sweet dessert then, i am the only main ingredient that makes it tastier . If life is a tree then, i am the chlorophyll that makes it green in colour. If life is a song then , i am the rhythm of its sound. If life is a word then , i am the only meaning to it. AND If life is a mistake then , i am the first and afterward but never the last mistake. Whats...

                                      LIVE FREELY AND FULLY A limit created by you is the only obstacle in front of you. Break the limits that pins you at one place . You are not an animal to be pined in the small area. The way you want to go , the way you want to do things or the way you want to live is the only way where there is no limit. You have that freedom to do the things you want to do . Use that freedom in the best way as you can. Don't let anything to stop you to accomplish your dream. When your dreams are fair to you , when your freedom is fair to you then , why you are not fair to your dreams and to your freedom. Don't try to find the excuses or reasons for your failure. Try to vanish out all the excuses and reasons as well. Remember "LIMITS ARE LIMITED BUT NOT THE WAYS TO GET OVER THEM."                         ...

We all are known to the fact that things done by the heart are never wrong. Heart knows what the right choice is for you , when you are confused. Yes, its decision are bit of emotions but are truely safe for all than the decision made by your brain. What brain thinks and do is only for worth. But what when the choices you made , the decisions you made, suddenly goes wrong because you were not sure to imply them but you really do so because someone had asked you to do that, someone had pushed you to do that , someone had wash your brain to just to do that and at the end you really do that because you think may be that person is right, may be what he has suggested you is right, by all means . And at the end you did all that someone has asked you to do and you failed because you made the commander of your brain that other person. Having respect towards others , listening their suggestions and advice , knowing their experiences is a good thing. But remind yourself that your brain is w...

It has been raining, since from a week if it couldn't stop sooner there would be flood in their town as it is located near the river, said by the mom while looking at kabir and his dad. Kabir, was a eight year old boy who was trying to put together the pieces of jigsaw puzzle firstly from his dad as they both were having competition  between them . The prize was decided that the winner will get a extra fish at the dinner. Kabir had a brilliant and a sharp mind , he could solve all the puzzles brought by his granny in a couple of minutes. And today too he has almost completd his puzzle but the two of the pieces were missing from the puzzle . It seems like kabir had lost it somewhere. He start thinking about it as where it could have been. His father has also completed half of his puzzle now , kabir was trying to impress on his brain , where the remaining two pieces could be gone. Suddenly, he saw his father leaving his puzzle in between and going out of the room. He ran after him an...

There is something that is following all of us from our birth , what's that ?  You can't see it , it has no physical appearance , even you can't feel it sometimes because it is invisible to you but it is always with you. Many of us know it and many are still confused. NO, am not talking about any black magic but ofcourse it is not less than any magic. I am talking here about our DEATH.    "MY BIRTH IS THE CREATION OF MY DEATH ".   And this is true for all of us. Our birth creates our death and  'what we are actually living it is not a life it is our death that we our living , our life starts when we are declared dead.'   In this journey of our living we wake up each day with new hope, with new dreams , with new desires , with new energy, with new enthusiasm , with everything new and even with a new physical body that fights all the night along and come throughout so many processes to keep it healthy and strong.  Steve Jobs once said , " i...

A man sitting on the road is seeking for food but not for home, a child thrown in the garbage is  seeking for lap but not for mom, a old man living in an old age home is seeking for life but not for a child, a child picking up trash from roads is seeking for education but not for toy, and a misery in every complicated situation is seeking for a solution but not for comfort. This small VERSE OF PAIN IS SEEKING FOR RIGHT BUT NOT FOR DELIGHT. "The one who seek for his need only , will definitely get beyond his seek."                                                                                                            (exploresakshi)

The thing you love the most, the thing you want to live , the thing that makes you happy , the thing that is holding your breaths ,the thing that is your last wish to become true , is your DREAM. It is running away from you day by day , Go and run after it to catch it . Its never late to get up and catch your dream but it is a time limit to get it. If you didn't 't  keep your eye on your goal it will disappear in the fog even in the day. Just know your dream and run after it untill you catch your dream. Nothing should be an obstacle in the way of your dream , just forget what are obstacles and just remember your that one DREAM.

A piece of paper , which turns itself into many things that plays an important role  in our daily life. It turns itself into a paper of notebook , into a certificate of appreciation , into a well known degree , into an agreement , into a money , into a wrap , into a tissue paper , even into a toilet paper and a many more. The paper remains the same , but it goes on changing its quality as it is changing its identity. It keeps on improving his identity from a toilet paper to a tissue paper, from a certificate of appreciation to a well known degree, from just a note to a note of money. Its value is becoming more and more, as the paper is unfolding its identity to improve its quality.  And this unfolded character of a paper gesture towards the persona of us that                                  ARE WE ALL ARE UNFOLDING OUR IDENTITY ? I think to answer this question firstly we have to unfold ...

So, you think you doing well as a man . You think you are genius as you can play with the hearts of many and cheat them. You think you are the brilliant in lying to many , you think you are the best player of your game. Well i must say what you think about yourself is actually true . Except the first line that adds glory to your character i.e. " YOU THINK YOU DOING WELL AS A MAN". I think it is so ridiculous that you think you are a man but you are not . The definition of man is not limited to just having a male sex . If he can't take the responsibilities of the women or a girl and just use her as a tissue paper he is not a MAN rather i see him as a one who is less than a human and more than an animal.  If a girl trusts you ,that means she thinks you are trustworthy. She finds a reflection of his father in you . But sadly she didn't get a footstep of her father in yours. Every girl is a princess for her father that's why she is so priceless. So, DON'T EVE...